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Online Commenting: What's in a Name?

Discussion of anonymous posting and commenting online: should it be allowed to continue? What do you have to say?

I have always been a fan of the "newspaper." My grandfather would collect his daily papers each day, in English and Italian. He would spread them all out on the counter in our family store and we would check out all the news of the day. Discussion and opinions were always encouraged and that would also include many of the customers who were in and out our doors all day long. People were proud to have their opinions heard and it was a comfort to sit and chat with our neighbors in our community.

Online publications are where I go now to get my news and information. I like my computer and all that brings to me for the most part. One thing I am bothered about lately is the anonymous posting/commenting on many of our local sites. It seems that once that "alias" is in place, people will say just about anything about everything in a very disturbing way. Many times it becomes bullying.  Without a name or a face behind the words it becomes a dangerous and slippery slope as posters take great liberties with their new found anonymity. Would they choose the same words with their name attached? I doubt it.

I have heard many pros and cons on this topic. I am leaning towards the side of too many "cons." Is this what we teach our children? Bullying is a hot topic at the moment. The media tells us that "bullying kills" and to "ban bullies." But everytime I read an article online anywhere, the ugly "Anonymous" pops in for a word. I have posted under a user-name myself. It never made me feel too good. Newspapers will not print an anonymous letter. Should the online press start to ask for the same? What happened to "owning your words" and standing up for your opinions in an honest fashion? I await your reply and respect your opinion and your name.

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jmm May 18, 2013 at 06:59 am
my understanding was that the dogs were hit by a car upisland not in Montauk
bernette May 17, 2013 at 11:38 am
well after the town board meeting last night the way i see it is the whole town is affected andRead More everyting and everyweek is some one getting away with out paying , we have familys of teenagers sharing rooms with there parnets and siblngs , cause the cost of living , hmmm but no matter where you go it cost money , teachers have there work cut out for them if they have to spend 50 dollars to buy stuff its there choice , well what it boils down to is the childern parnetns rather drive cars and have nice clothes and fancy jelws than spend 5 or 1o dollars to pay for pens for there kids to go to schoo.also i dont feel the familys see what education really is is a free babysitting service thats my feelings ,
Liz Robertson May 18, 2013 at 05:53 pm
no. i've put up signs, left phone number in neighbors mailboxes and searched nearby roads by bike.Read More maybe she will show up at someone's house when she gets hungry. thanks for asking.
Taylor K. Vecsey (Editor) May 18, 2013 at 03:23 pm
Any luck, Liz?
Mrs.Susan Grimshaw May 17, 2013 at 08:33 am
Looking forward to meeting lots of Great White Shark Fans at the Montauk Star Island SharkRead More Tournament. S.G.
Taylor K. Vecsey (Editor) May 14, 2013 at 09:29 am
Yes. The town is in the final stages of review with the FAA. While they were hoping to have it upRead More and running by Memorial Day weekend, it looks more like the 1st of June.
debbie geppert May 10, 2013 at 08:58 pm
or you can also contact us through the Debbie Geppert Catering web site at www.DGCatering.com
Taylor K. Vecsey (Editor) May 10, 2013 at 11:07 pm
That's great. From what I understand, no one lodged a complaint with the town. Seems after I called,Read More a few phone calls were made and they carted it off.
jmm May 10, 2013 at 06:02 pm
Just went to the beach and it appears to be gone! Thank you Taylor!
jmm May 10, 2013 at 01:24 pm
Thanks!